| | | | Prepare Your Child for Preschool |
By Darlene Zagata 
It is common for parents to worry about how their child will react to preschool. For some children, separation anxiety can be a problem. Children that have been in daycare at an early age or those that have had regular interaction with other children and adults usually have a much easier time making the transition. On the other hand, children that have stayed at home with a parent or regular sitter may find entering preschool and the separation from their home environment more frightening.
Most children of preschool age have developed a sense of curiosity about the world around them and other children. This innate curiosity draws them to want to interact with others but this can also be a time of anxiety for them especially when being separated from those they are close to as they prepare to enter a foreign environment.
Parents also feel pangs of painful separation from their child during such a period of transition. They tend to worry about their child’s physical well being as well as his or her emotional reactions. A parent’s fears can be exaggerated as well as a child’s. In most cases, children adapt more quickly and easier than adults. Although they may be apprehensive for the first few days in a new environment, before long they usually settle in quite easily.
I remember the fears I had when my daughter first started kindergarten. She was a very shy child and clung ferociously to my husband and me. We feared that she would have a terrible time adjusting to being separated from us but she proved us wrong. In fact, her first day went surprisingly well. Never underestimate a child’s ability to adapt.
Parents often feel as though they have abandoned their child and they may feel a twinge of guilt. There is no need to feel this way. Instead, parents should try to gradually acclimate their child to new surroundings and ready them for preschool by arranging brief periods of separation. Most daycare and preschool facilities are aware and sensitive to issues of separation that may arise between parents and children when attending for the first time. Parents may be able to arrange periodic and brief visits at the preschool prior to enrollment in order to familiarize the child with the environment, the other children and the adults as well. Doing so can help to alleviate fear and the anxiety of separation from parents.
Get an early start by encouraging interaction with other children. This can be done by making regular visits to a local park or playground or by scheduling play dates with other mothers and children in the neighborhood. It’s a good idea to join a playgroup or recreation center. This can be a great outlet for both children and parents.
Even if your child does experience a small amount of separation anxiety when attending preschool, remember that it is normal and chances are it will be short-lived. In the event that your child seems to have a severe case of separation anxiety, consult your pediatrician. He or she will be able to offer professional guidance and perhaps a thorough consultation can help work through the child’s fears. Preschool should be a pleasant experience not a frightening one.
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hhkjh
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I'm nervous too. He may go in the Fall...he'll be four. He is at daycare full time now so I think it will be an easier trasition but I'm still nervous!
ChristineB
Your little guy is as bright as a button by the sounds of it, Christine. I think he'll do great there with all the extra stimulation. [:D]
fiery
Me too! Unfortunately his birthday is Nov 1st so he has to wait a whole year extra. Boooo
ChristineB
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